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Женщина, Новости Недели | | April 12, 2012 0:00

The profession of the psychologist very often tells more about you than you can assume. You can agree or disagree with them, you can consider their activities the waste of time, and however, deep in your heart you wonder how much the definition was to the pint. Armenpress reporter had an interview with famous judicial psychologist, writer Elda Green on the endless weakness and stubbornness of women.

-Mrs. Green, we know that in your practice you have helped hundreds of people to surmount the difficulties. Who has been your psychologist over the years?

I am my own psychologist. During my long life I have never applied to somebody for help; always tried to come to solutions by myself. Being a strong personality, too pride at the same time but not arrogant one I am the one who settles my problems. When my family members are in need of psychologist’s advice they applied to my fellow colleagues. For my family members I am not psychologist or writer; at home I am mother, grandma and aunt.

-Have you ever tried to count how many people have you showed assistance in your life time, have you ever tried to look back and evaluate the path you have passed?

It is a waste of time counting the number of patients, they were countless. I am always directed by internal confidence, if a person is in need I always turn to help him- the results are most often good. If I had a chance to start my life, my activities I shall live the way I did, I shall not change anything.

-Do you agree with the allegation, that women are weak sex?

The woman in my opinion is not aggressive; the only manifestation of it can be in the way of expressions, paroles. The woman is raising children, it is in her nature, and she is delicate at the same time. Whereas man is the protector of the family, no matter who ‘’rules’’ the family. It is not by chance that Marks estimated mainly’’ weakness’’ in women.

-Is it true that women are more depressive and quarrelsome?

The’’ quarrelsome quality’’ stands for being impatient. The woman wants that somebody listens to her, understands. In the relations of men and women, men are expressing and addressing their speech directly; whereas women are speaking a bit complicated. The disputes come from these differences, from perceptions of phenomena variously, which later on make woman fall into depression.

-Can we generalize for the Armenian families the resolution- the man is the head of the family, and the woman is the neck?

Armenian family is just the way you told. There are also families where the’’ resolution sides ‘’change. Where the word of the man is decisive it is for the benefit of the woman. In this case there is a one whom you can apply, who will fulfill your desires. If the woman is shrewd and smart, she shows herself as obedient, but in fact acts the way she wants.

-Does your mood change during women holidays?

The men should appreciate the role of women in their everyday life usually. I hail men not to present flowers or other gifts only during these days. Dear men you can make the whole year holiday.

-What do you wish Armenian woman?

I call on women not to take men so seriously. Currently men deem the more women they have in their life the more successive they will be seemed. So we should not take them seriously in this case. I wish each woman like themselves and consider they are the most beautiful …

Interview by Arusik Zakharyan.

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